In Search of a Good Excuse
So I haven’t written for weeks and you want an
explanation. Writer’s block,
perhaps? No. It’s actually a new disease called: “Springtime Paralysis.” This disease affects mostly mid-life people
who do yard work. It is probably a
disease related to: “Midlife Basketball
Psychosis.” The latter is a disease
mostly contracted by men who, while in midlife, still think they should be on a
basketball court with the young bucks.
Inevitably, they pull something – like a hamstring – and are sidelined
until they come to their senses and realize, “Hey, I think my body is older
than my soul and I can’t do this anymore.”
Common denominators in both syndromes are: chronological age; youthful mentality; no one
with common sense to deter or stop them; and opportunity.
Opportunity presents itself in many forms. My symptoms start to come on in mid-February
when the winter lashes its cruelest blows using snow and sleet and grey
daytimes against my otherwise cherub-like demeanor. Then, the petri dish that incubates my
restless soul comes in the mailbox:
magazines from every garden supplier known to mankind. Ones with bulbs and ones with perennials. Tall grasses.
Short shrubs. Giant thuja trees. The shade-lovers and the
drought-tolerant. Blasts of vibrant red,
glorious yellow, majestic purple, soothing blue – the colors intoxicate me and
I begin to feel woozy. I reach for my
pencil to create a Wish List. Perhaps
“Lust List” is more accurate. If it
makes it to the List, it may make it to the Planning Journal that I draft to
map-out my garden.
Do not be impressed that I have a Planning Journal for my
gardening efforts. It is strictly a
memory aid to help me because inevitably I dig out this year as a “weed,” some
great thing I planted last year as an “exotic.” (regarding anything officially
labeled “exotic,” please add five-to-ten dollars to estimated costs.) For
example, I was given many peony tubers this year from a friend, so I had to map
where I planted them lest I start tearing them out next year or mowing them
down before they become what they are destined to be. Do not vote for my sanity by saying: “Oh, come on now, you would never do that.” I would.
I’ve done it. How someone can
lose roses, thorns and all, I do not know.
But I am not alone. I suspect
that my lawn guy also has been part of the back-asswards process of mowing down
what I put in. Now I have driveway
markers indicating when the young trees or shrubs went in. It is so much easier now - it cuts down on me
grinding my teeth every time he mows the grass.
I would be remiss if I didn’t share the
Iris Story at this point. One fine
summer day I came home to find
not one, not two, but seven large, black, filled, 30 gallon lawn/trash bags
lying in a heap on my side driveway.
Question marks danced around the cartoon of my head. Did the town crew clean the drainage ditch in
front of the neighbor’s house and leave the junk there? Not a chance.
Did someone drop their lawn cuttings?
Or was it a dead body? With great
reserve I peeled back the corner of the bag and then I recognized many, many iris tubers. A lightbulb went off in my head: my friend was having her yard cleaned up…. I
called her husband. He said, “Oh no. They should’ve gone to the landfill.” His wife was out of town, so I called her on
her cell phone: “Hey did you have your
yard worker leave iris bulbs for me?”
“Yes.” “How many bags?” “She was supposed to leave two. She was thinning them out for me.”
Then I did a very dumb thing. The other morning when I woke up –with plenty
to do already on my work list – I felt absolutely compelled to get the statue
of the Blessed Mother moved from the far back of the property up into the
perennial “garden.” Well, it’s not truly
a perennial garden yet, but I am trying really hard to make it one. Moving the statue six years ago to its extended
location in the far back involved three very strong Protestant young men. That was my first clue. Moving it to where it is today involved my
4-wheel drive vehicle and me, myself, and I.
It would serve as an important revelation of my physical capabilities at
my prime long ago to, at this point, note that in high school I was “clocked”
for the Presidential Physical Fitness Awards doing the flexed-arm-hang for
negative three seconds. That means I
have less-than-zero upper arm strength.
Did I lift that statue two weeks ago?
Yes I did. Do you remember the
cartoons where people lift something or pull something and they end up with
gorilla arms that hang longer than their whole body length? Yep.
That’s me today. You may not be
able to physically see what happened
to my muscles and tendons but I am putting a dent in the pain reliever bottle
to help abate the “mild, yet incessant, discomfort” I am experiencing for two
weeks straight. That maneuver, plus
raking and pulling weeds for close to two hours finished me off. Lesson learned. Maybe.
I won’t be heroically lifting volkswagens off of innocent victims any
time soon. I’m pretty sure I burned up
the reserve of adrenaline with the raking of the garden.
All that being said, it’s been kind of tough to be inspired
to write when all I want is a couch with no dogs on it and a hot pack draped
over my arms. <Picture me hoisting
gingerale> Here’s to a great
gardening season and blooms all summer long!
It will be worth it. I just know it.